Goal setting :
When we are child, we start our life with varied thoughts,
fantasies and desires. Do these thoughts, fantasies and desires
get realized? Why don't they get realized? Is the childhood
ambition of becoming a doctor true?
Actually our ambition is not our ambition. The ambition of our
parents, society's and others associated comes along with us and
becomes our ambition. Truly, it is very important to have an
ambition of our own? Why do we need to have an ambition?
What actually is the role of our parents, society’s and others
associated with us in deciding a goal?
Is it for a good life? Is it for the society? Is it for those
around us? Or, Is it for us? What is the reason we happen to
miss our goal? Is it because we lack self-interest? Is it
because you have failed to know your inherent skills? Or, Is
there any other reason?
In setting our goals, it is very important to analyze these
factors. Well, if we happen to know our destiny, only then you
can plan your approach. When we think about ambition, we are
only reminded of those inspiring words deep rooted in our hearts
by our parents. They stuff us with words of becoming an
engineer, doctor, collector or any other fields related to the
above.
Some are able attain such pre-determined goals. Some are unable
make it through. Every one of us should fix a goal according to
our thinking and skill sets that we possess.
If we take a look at those who have attained their goals,
everything depends on the skills and the right attitude that
they possess. Understanding their strengths and weakness.
First of all we should understand what exactly are the various
strength of a person? After discovering it, we should use it in
the appropriate situations. Such situations do not come
frequently, but once in a while. We should be prepared to use it
at that particular juncture.
Its not only enough to know your
strengths, it is also important to use it at the right moment.
Next, apart from knowing your strengths another crucial thing
for a person to fix a goal is to know your weaknesses. Knowing
how to transform their weakness into strengths is very
important. Here lies the key to success.
